Bar/Bat Mitzvah pages 2018-19

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For the bar/bat mitzvah pages for the 2018-19 year, see http://bit.ly/ush-bar-bat-mitzvahs-2018-19!

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  1. Jewish TraditionsJuly 7, 2019 at 9:24 PM

    Hi Rabbi, we are invited to the bar mitzvah. As I've learned here https://besttraditions.info/bar-mitzvah-gift-etiquette/, the gift of $50 is good for the close friend. What do you think money increment is enough (we live in Pittsburgh)? Toda raba!

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