Friday, December 14, 2012

A prayer after the school shooting in Connecticut



(From my email message to my synagogue community on Friday, December 14:)

Dear friends,


Shabbat is approaching, but I wanted to share some personal reactions to today's terrible news out of Connecticut.

The tragedy is so horrifying -- and the Hoboken connection brings the potential for tragedy so close to home.  While the news is constantly changing, at this point it is not unreasonable to imagine an alternate scenario in which this massacre would  have unfolded in Hoboken rather than in Connecticut.  We cannot pretend that we are not connected to this tragedy.

At the bottom of this email I have tried to express some of my most heartfelt prayers at this painful moment. 

Those of us with children may appreciate some suggestions for discussing such horrifying events with children; for example, http://www.nmha.org/go/information/get-info/coping-with-disaster/helping-children-handle-disaster-related-anxiety

This tragedy reminds us all -- in our families and in our institutions -- to have well-developed plans for how to respond in case of emergency.   

Despite this tragedy, it remains the case that elementary schools are among the safest environments for children -- safer than almost any other location where elementary school age children go.  But our nation has the responsibility to take whatever steps are necessary to make such outrageous occurrences even less likely.  I hope there will be a robust debate in our society about what steps could be taken to prevent such tragedies in the future.

Wishing you a Shabbat of peace, and remaining days of Hanukkah that increase your quotient of light and warmth in the world.




Dear God, 

מפי עוללים ויונקים יסדת עז למען צורריך להשבית אויב ומתנקם

(תהילים ח)
From the mouths of young children
may You establish Your power
against Your enemies,
to silence every foe and avenger. (Psalm 8)

הרי בנינו עורבים אותנו
(שיר השירים רבה א.ד)
Our children are our guarantors. (Shir HaShirim Rabbah 1:4)

Our hearts break any time we hear of violence afflicting the innocent -- 

all the more so when we hear of the tragic loss of children.

Dear God, be with the parents, siblings, and other family members who are mourning an unthinkable tragedy today; 

send them comfort, light, strength, and peace.

Help us to create a world where all children can be safe to grow up and thrive,
where we can promise our children that their worst nightmares will never be real. 

Help us to create a world where troubled people can readily find the solace they seek
and can never achieve the power to inflict their torments on others.

Our children are our guarantors. 

May we be worthy to be their protectors.

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Birkat ha-Gomel - Prayer of Thanksgiving after the hurricane

I wrote this for the Rabbinical Assembly's Thanksgiving Service 2012, in light of our community's experiences with Hurricane Sandy.


Introduction to Birkat Ha-gomel 
by Rabbi Rob Scheinberg, United Synagogue of Hoboken, NJ


The traditional Jewish response to a brush with danger is to recite a blessing – just as we try to respond to every life experience with words of blessing.

It may appear to be a paradox that the Birkat Ha-gomel, the Blessing of Thanksgiving, is recited following the very most terrifying moments in our lives:

Barukh … ha-gomel l’hayavim tovot, she-g’malani kol tov.’ 
‘Blessed are you, Adonai, our God, sovereign of the universe, who bestows favor upon the undeserving, and has bestowed favor upon me.’

We express gratefulness, even though we know that our good fortune has nothing to do with our merit. We are all the ‘hayavim’ - the ‘undeserving’. This blessing acknowledges that the fundamental unfairness of the universe sometimes accrues to our advantage.

When we have a brush with danger, we have a special responsibility to experience a commonality with those who have suffered – to understand that, by rights, their fate could, or even should, have been our fate – and to contemplate the obligations that are ours as a result of our good fortune.

Many of us who were maximally affected by Hurricane Sandy emerged, despite all our pain and difficulty, with a heightened sense of gratitude.

In my community, many of those who lost power were saying: Thank God we only lost power and didn’t lose our running water.

And those who lost power and water were saying: Thank God we didn’t have material losses.

The people who had material losses were saying: Thank God our losses weren’t more severe than they were.

The people who lost cars were saying: Thank God I didn’t lose my living space.

And the people who had very significant losses in their homes were saying: Thank God we only lost things, and we didn’t lose our loved ones.

These feelings of gratitude do not necessarily replace the feelings of frustration and pain and loss and fear. Often our conflicting emotions coexist.


The Birkat Ha-gomel also reminds us of our responsibility at a time of danger to emulate God, who is known as ‘Ha-gomel’ – ‘the One who bestows kindness,’ as we respond to disaster and tragedy by bestowing kindness upon others.

Our tradition requires us to say this brakhah in the presence of the community and to be supported by that community because we need others to support us. We know that for many Jews who are used to being givers, accepting simple material support as well as emotional support is very challenging and perhaps painful. But our tradition teaches us that life involves mutuality. Sometime we are the givers, but we must equally know how to accept help.

Those of us who experienced a brush with danger are invited to rise and recite the Birkat Ha-gomel – after which the rest of us will respond with the traditional response to Birkat Ha-gomel: our prayer that God will continue to show you favor, and that you will continue to see all the favor that God shows you.

Thoughts on Hurricane Sandy and Hoboken: "Many waters cannot extinguish love"

Below is our most recent update on the impact of Hurricane Sandy on our synagogue's community and activities. This update will also be reprinted in the Shofar Newsletter for the coming month. Please feel free to forward it to friends and relatives who might be interested in how our Jewish community is faring after the storm --and especially to those who have inquired about how they can assist. 


http://rebuildhoboken.org/images/hoboken.jpg
photo taken just a couple of blocks from the United Synagogue of Hoboken.  Photo is from the Rebuild Hoboken website (www.rebuildhoboken.org)
מַיִם רַבִּים לֹא יוּכְלוּ לְכַבּוֹת אֶת הָאַהֲבָה וּנְהָרוֹת לֹא יִשְׁטְפוּהָ.


“Many waters cannot extinguish love,
Nor can rivers drown it.”  (Song of Songs 8:7)

These past three weeks have been among the most troubling of my life, but also among the most exhilarating.  I am posting here some updates about the impact of Hurricane Sandy on our community, the current state of the recovery in our community, and some practical suggestions for how we can help, whether we are in Hoboken or elsewhere around the world.

1.  Impact on the synagogue building and communal activities:  I am addressing the impact on our synagogue building first, not because it is the most important or drastic way that the storm affected our community, but simply because it is a convenient place to start.   While our building suffered significant damage, we feel very fortunate that our programmatic spaces were not affected by flooding. The most seriously affected area, of course, was our basement, which was under 7 feet of water.  After getting it pumped out after a couple of days of the storm, we removed all its contents (with the assistance of Nechama - a Jewish Response to Disaster, see below, together with a team of USH volunteers) and got the space professionally cleaned and remediated.  The most significant losses were our one-year-old boiler and our hot water heater; as of this writing (November 19), we are still awaiting the boiler replacement.  We had some emotional Shabbat services in our building just six days after the storm, with lights provided by generator power; many of us recited the Birkat ha-Gomel, the Blessing of Thanksgiving, recognizing that despite the catastrophe that we had experienced, individually and communally, things could have been even worse.

Within the following week, many of our synagogue activities resumed.  Learning Center classes resumed in alternate locations (the Yifrakh/Sotto home, and the Hudson School) while our building was still without power.  The 100 block of Park Avenue may have been the very last block in Hoboken to have its power restored; the power came on in the early afternoon on Friday November 9, and our electricians enabled power to be restored to our building just a few hours later.  Even if they had not, however, we had assembled an impressive backup plan to power our building with generators for Shabbat services and Sebastian Haas’s bar mitzvah.  By two weeks after the storm, all our synagogue activities had resumed their regular schedule.


Numerous people played a role in getting us back up and running, including our “First Responders” (Steve Sperber, Rick Stempler, Jon Gellman, Rob and Julie Harari, Matt Meistrich, Barry Grossman, Mike Marcello); those who loaned their heaters and generators while our building and school were without power (Jon Gellman, Masha Golubchik, Carol Kaplan, Mitchell Levine and Cathy Cruz Levine, Ari and Anna Novosyolok, Valdi and Lauren Sapira, Martin and Tracy Schnabel, Erica Silbiger, Steve Sperber and Phannee Noiplai, Sharon Stern, David Swirnoff and Merry Firschein); those who helped empty out the basement of our building together with our custodial staff and volunteer group, Nechama Jewish Response to Disaster (Lauren Blumenfeld, Drew Moss, Marcia Orange, Robert Strell, Coby Strell and his friend, Hunter; Wendy Setzer, Dayna Sessa, Alan Welner; Adam Strosberg); those who repaired the emergency stairs and supply closet (Joe Epstein, Mark Glass, David Kalmus), those in our synagogue leadership who steered the process of the remediation of our building (Steve Sperber, Rick Stempler, Jim Weinstein, Myrna Kasser, Lauren Blumenfeld, Samantha Myers), and our USH staff (Rachelle Grossman, Grace Gurman-Chan, Marni Gold, and especially Facilities Manager Anita Belle, Office Manager Laura Forino, and Maintenance Staff Michaelson Alexis).    We are also overcome with gratitude for the very generous donations, from our community and from around the world, that have come in to our Hurricane Sandy Remediation Fund to assist us in our recovery costs.  (Donations received before the Shofar deadline will be listed in the December Shofar.)

2.  Impact on our synagogue community:  Within the first couple of days after the storm, we began an effort to check in with every member of USH to find out how people were doing, who had endured what damage, whose power was restored, who needed a place to stay, etc.  We were horrified, but sadly unsurprised, to hear story after story of our members stranded in their homes, being evacuated by the National Guard, enduring damage to basements and storage areas, enduring the loss of cars, and in all too many cases, enduring the loss of living space.  Even those who did not endure any damage to their property experienced a terrifying disaster.  For those who did lose property, the crisis continues, and our communal attention now turns to them, to be as supportive as we are able.

Beyond the individual phone calls, we created an event on Thursday evening November 15, called the “Hurricane Hagomel Dinner and Community Meeting.”  This free dinner (through the generosity of the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism) gave our community the chance to come together to commiserate about our experience, and for people in our community who had been maximally affected to consult with representatives from FEMA, Jewish Family Service, Jewish Federations of North America, and experts in the legal, insurance, and mental health implications of disasters like this one.  


During those early days after the storm, many of us who are usually accustomed to being extremely self-sufficient found ourselves growing in comfort with asking others for help - for a place to stay, a place to charge devices and use wifi, a hot shower, or assistance with cleanup.  For those who are feeling the continuing impact of the storm for weeks and months to come, please know that you do not need to endure this burden alone.  One of our most important tasks as a community is to help you to learn about the various communal resources that are available to share your burden.


We’re grateful to Myrna Kasser, Elissa Aaronson, Hope Koturo, Ken Schept, Cindy Altberger, Marni Kriegel, Louise Kurtz, Ariel Russo, and many others for reaching out to our members and planning the Hagomel Dinner.  It could not have taken place without the support of United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism (www.uscj.org) (and the support of Rabbi Paul Drazen, Jennifer Stofman, and Rabbi Eliseo Rozenwasser), Jewish Federations of North America (www.jfna.org) (and Ed Finkel and Martin Greenberg of the Network of Independent Communities, and Steven Woolf, Senior Counsel, JFNA Disaster Relief), Jewish Family Service of Metrowest (www.jfsmetrowest.org) (and Executive Director Reuben Rotman, Jayne Sayovitz, and Lauren Hennion), Toni Moen of FEMA, Michael Blumenfeld, Jeremy Garlock, Rabbi Naomi Kalish, April Harris of the Hoboken Emergency Food Pantry, Jaclyn Cherubini of the Hoboken Shelter, Bill Driscoll Jr of Nechama, Rabbi Debby Hachen of Temple Beth El, and many others working behind the scenes.
(You can see the program for the

3.  How to help, #1:  Volunteer Opportunities: Nechama - a Jewish Response to Disaster (www.nechama.org)

The first few days after the storm, thousands upon thousands of volunteers worked around the clock in Hoboken, checking in on elderly and other vulnerable residents, delivering prescriptions, staffing phone emergency lines, delivering and distributing clothing, food, and other necessities, and beginning the long process of post-storm clean-up.  Within a week of the storm, I had met volunteers from Texas, Massachusetts, Minnesota, Wisconsin, and other locations, who had all come to Hoboken to be with us in our time of need and to help us to heal.

Of all the organizations that provided volunteers on the ground in Hoboken, I want to single out one for special attention:  a Minnesota-based organization called Nechama - a Jewish Response to Disaster.  This organization, funded by the American Jewish community nationwide, organizes volunteers to clean up damaged properties whose owners (whether organizations or individuals) would have a hard time hiring someone to do that work.  USH member Bette Birnbaum, a Nechama board member, immediately made a connection between Nechama and the City of Hoboken.  Within just a couple of days after the storm, Nechama volunteers began the process of clearing debris from non-profit buildings in Hoboken such as Our Lady of Grace Church and the In Jesus’ Name Food Pantry, the Hoboken Multi-Service Center, and the Boys and Girls Club.  The Monday morning after the storm, the Nechama team coordinated our USH team of volunteers in clearing out the USH basement.  Nechama was instrumental in clearing all polling locations in Hoboken so that elections could take place the week following the storm.


In the last couple of weeks, we have greeted volunteers from around the New York area who have arrived to Hoboken to volunteer with Nechama.  On Friday November 9, the volunteers were a group of National Conference of Synagogue Youth high school students, who had been scheduled for a volunteer trip to New Orleans but changed their itinerary to spend the day in Hoboken instead.  Other individuals and groups from synagogues, universities and schools, and Jewish communal organizations -- Jews and non-Jews - have come to volunteer with Nechama.  We had the great honor to meet Nechama Executive Director Bill Driscoll Jr at our Hurricane Hagomel Dinner and Community Meeting to learn more about the organization’s work.   As the recovery effort progresses, they expect to leave Hoboken and spend more time in the very hard hit areas of Brooklyn, Queens, Long Island, and the Jersey Shore.

When I am asked by people outside of the local area, “How can I help?”  my first answer is:  if you want to do some serious dirty-clothes volunteering, contact Nechama.  You can sign up as a volunteer at www.nechama.org.  After seeing the impact of Nechama on our community, there are many people from our synagogue who plan to volunteer with Nechama in other affected New York area locations.  Nechama’s capacity to help, and the number of volunteer sites they can work on simultaneously, is dependent on the donations they receive.  What an extraordinary way to put Jewish values in action!

4.  How to help #2: Tzedakah opportunities:  Disaster Relief Organizations

Individuals and organizations will continue to have manifold needs long after Nechama concludes their hands-on clean-up work.  The Disaster Relief Fund of Jewish Federations of North America (www.jfna.org) provides supplemental funding for the range of organizations that provide immediate and long-range disaster relief.  In our area, much of this supplemental funding is going to the Jewish Family Service of Metrowest, and its parallel organizations in New York City and elsewhere in the New York area, because of the dramatically increased numbers of clients they are now serving, and the dramatically increased needs of those clients.  The advice and assistance of Jewish Federations of North America, and especially of Ed Finkel, Northeast Region Director of the Network of Independent Communities, has been so valuable to our community during these difficult weeks.

The Disaster Relief Fund of the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism (www.uscj.org) also addresses important disaster relief needs, with a special focus on affected Conservative congregations.  We are so grateful for the support of USCJ at this time of crisis in our congregation’s history.  We are also grateful that we can contribute to this fund to assist congregations that are significantly more affected than we are -- such as Temple Beth El of Manhattan Beach, Brooklyn (http://templebethelmb.org/), whose large building was flooded in this catastrophe.


The City of Hoboken, working with the Hoboken Rotary Club, has established the Rebuild Hoboken Fund (www.rebuildhoboken.org)

These are only a few of the appropriate destinations for storm-related tzedakah.  I also encourage our community to consider the Hoboken Shelter (www.hobokenshelter.org); Emergency Food Pantry (http://injesusnamecharities.org/); Jubilee Center (www.jubileecenterhoboken.org) - These organizations have always been our close partners in the hesed work of our congregation with Hoboken’s most vulnerable population -- and since the storm, their needs have only increased.


We read in the biblical book of Song of Songs, “Many waters cannot extinguish love; rivers cannot drown it.” (8:7)  Our city’s streets, buildings, cars, and homes may have been flooded, but the love in our hearts has not been extinguished; it has grown.  May we fulfill our commitments to those who have lost so much in this storm, not to leave them to suffer in loneliness.  May we respond to this storm by redoubling our commitment to hesed, to acts of love and compassion and dedication to each other.

Monday, October 29, 2012

"Noah Voters and Abraham Voters" (Rosh haShanah 2012)


(Parts of this sermon are adapted from my reflections from July 4, http://rabbischeinberg.blogspot.com/2012/07/blessing-for-czar-in-honor-of.html. 


It’s time for show and tell.
Let me tell you about this book, which some of you have seen before.
This book has been in the possession of our congregation since it was founded in 1905.
It’s a High Holiday Mahzor -- published in the Lithuanian city of Vilna, today Vilnius, in the year 1914.

But suppose you didn’t know that.  Suppose the title page with the copyright information had been missing.
When you look at an old Jewish prayerbook, how can you figure out when and where it was published?

Let me show you.  I am reading now from page 194-
a page immediately before the Torah is returned to the ark.





TRANSLATION:
May He Who grants salvation to kings and dominion to rulers,
Whose kingdom is a kingdom spanning all eternity….
May He bless, protect, guard, assist, elevate, exalt, and lift upwards
Our master CZAR NIKOLAI ALEXANDROVICH,
With his wife, the honorable CZARINA ALEXANDRA FEODOROVNA
Their son, the crown prince ALEXI NIKOLAIOVICH
And his mother, the honorable CZARINA MARIA FEODORAVNA
And the entire house of our king, may their glory be exalted.
May the King of kings in His mercy give him life, and protect him,
And save him from every trouble, woe and injury.
May nations submit under his feet, and may his enemies fall before him,
And may he succeed in whatever he endeavors.
May the King of kings, in His mercy, grant compassion in his heart
and the heart of all his advisors
To do favors for us and for all Israel, our brethren.
In his days and in our days, may Judah be saved, and may Israel dwell securely,
And may the Redeemer come to Zion. So may it be His will – and we say:  AMEN.

So now you know -- when in Fiddler on the Roof, they ask the Rabbi,
“Is there a blessing for the Czar?”
It’s actually no joke.  There IS a blessing for the Czar.
or the king, or the emperor, or whoever’s dominion Jews were living under at any particular time.

Some of you have heard me read from this or other old prayerbooks
especially on the Shabbat closest to July 4.
It has become for me a meaningful way to celebrate July 4
because it reminds me just how unprecedented
the Jewish experience has been in America.

Listen to how obsequious these words are:
May He bless, protect, guard, assist, elevate, exalt, and lift upwards.
especially when you think about what the relationship those leaders actually had with the Jewish minorities in their midst.
My favorite part is  וייפול שונאיו לפניו “may their enemies fall before them.”
[Who do you think Czar Nicholas’s enemies were?  US!]
Truly this does not look like a genuine heart-felt prayer.  
This looks like a little moment of public relations in the midst of the prayer service -
just in case anyone should accuse the Jews of being insufficiently loyal and patriotic -
they can say, “What do you mean?  Look at this prayer that we recite for the Czar every Shabbos in the synagogue!”
No matter how cruelly they were mistreated, they still needed to create an illusion of respect for the authorities.

So what happened when Jews came to the United States?
For most Jews, for the very first time, they were confronted with a system of government
in which they had a say.
in which their relationship with the government was not one of ‘us and them,’
or, worse, ‘us vs. them,’
but where members of the Jewish community itself were invited to have a voice in the political process.

Soon it became clear that this new land demanded a new kind of prayer for its new kind of government and new kind of society.
We take it for granted today, but there is virtually no other era in Jewish history
when a diaspora Jewish community felt that it had a measure of political control over its fate.
And as a result, most Jewish communities in the United States, including ours,
recite a completely different version of the prayer for the country
than the one I just read.
Its focus is not on deference and servility to the leadership,
and praying that the leaders will see fit to do favors to the Jewish community.
Because the leaders are US – or the ones WE help to choose.
Rather, this new prayer focuses on the dreams of justice and equity,
dreams that the Jewish community shares with our neighbors.

As I said, I have often described the history of the Jewish prayer for the government        
near July 4,
but this story seems especially relevant at this time of year,
as we approach a presidential election --
the quintessential demonstration of the difference between how our ancestors were governed since time immemorial, and how we are governed today.

Now, you know that there are some congregations, Christian and Jewish,
where shortly before the election,
the spiritual leader gathers the flock together
and basically -- tells them exactly how they should vote.

Now what may be surprising to you -
is that that is exactly what I am going to do for the rest of this sermon:
Speaking on behalf of Jewish tradition as I understand it,
I am going to tell you -- how to vote.

I’m seeing some of you get a little nervous.
Especially the USH board members, who are probably terrified that I am about to say or do something that will jeopardize our 501c3 tax-exempt status.
So let me put your mind at ease.  I of course am not going to communicate who you should vote FOR.
but is there a Jewish way to vote?  Absolutely.
How could there be a Jewish way to eat, a Jewish way to wear clothing,
a Jewish way to engage in business practices, a Jewish way to speak, a Jewish way to rest,
but not a Jewish way to vote?!
If Judaism is a civilization in every sense of the word -
If Jewish law and tradition and values inform and enrich every aspect of our lives -
then certainly there are MORE Jewish ways to vote - and LESS Jewish ways to vote.

Now you may find it surprising that Jewish tradition would have anything to say about voting, considering how new we usually think that democracy is.
But actually, the idea of deciding important matters according to majority vote
has a long history in Jewish tradition.
In the time of the Talmud, we read about how civil and criminal trials were decided by a jury of one’s peers.
It’s described in the Talmud as a panel of 23 judges, but the qualifications of such a judge make it essentially equivalent to a jury trial today -
meaning that each person who was considered a full member of the society
participated actively in the judicial process.

And many medieval Jewish communities were self-governing, and elected their leadership, through community elections that were decided by majority vote,
and those leaders often constituted a municipal council that would govern by majority vote - just like some other city councils with which some of us may be familiar.

Those of you who are on our congregational email list know that before every election,
whether it’s a presidential election, or the election for Hoboken School Board, or anything in between,
I send out a reminder of the poll hours, and I also send a kavvanah - a meditation, in Hebrew and English, that one can say before voting.
There is a Jewish mystical tradition of reciting such a kavvanah, meditation, before performing any mitzvah - any commandment - as an opportunity to pause and take note of the holiness of the moment.
This kavvanah, which I adapted from my colleague Rabbi David Seidenberg, reads in part:
הַרֵינִי מוּכָן וּמְכָוֵון בְּהַצְבָּעָתִי הַיוֹם
לִדְרֹש שָׁלוֹם בַּעָד הַמְדִינָה הַזֹאת

With my vote today, I mindfully intend to seek peace for my city and my nation..... 
ׁתִּתֵן לְבָב חָכְמָה 
לְמִי שֶׁאָנוּ בּוֹחֲרִים הַיוֹם
וְתִשָׂא עַלֵינוּ מֶמְשָלָה לְטוֹבָה וְלִבְרָכָה
May You give a wise heart to whoever we elect today,
   and may You help us to establish a government for goodness and blessing
   to bring justice and well-being to all the inhabitants of this city and this nation.

And truly, that is step 1 of voting Jewishly.
Voting Jewishly means voting with consciousness -
consciousness of our good fortune to live at a time and place where we participate in the shaping of our political fate.
and consciousness that voting is the fulfillment of a mitzvah- a commanded holy act to establish justice and peace in our communities.

But does Judaism have anything to say about how we select our candidates?
again, I answer:  if selecting candidates for public office is a matter of significance,
how could Judaism NOT take a stand on how one is supposed to do it?!

Let me suggest to you that there are two kinds of voters:
we could call them “Noah voters” and “Abraham voters.”

A few weeks from now in our torah reading cycle,
we will read about Noah -- who, as we know, is told by God
that the people in his society are wicked,
and God intends to destroy them,
but God intends to save Noah.     - 
God commands Noah to build an ark,
make it so many cubits by so many cubits, and cover it with pitch, and save his family and an assortment of animals.
And this is exactly what Noah proceeds to do.
And nowhere in the torah is there any indication that Noah hesitates for a moment,
or expresses concern about the people who will be washed away.
Whatever happens, Noah knows that he and his family will be safe

And then, the week after we read about Noah,
we learn about Abraham, the founder of the Jewish people, about whom we also read this morning.
But shortly before our torah reading this morning
was another relevant episode in Abraham’s life.
God approaches Abraham and says to him:  the residents of the cities of Sodom and Gemorrah
are exceedingly wicked - and I intend to destroy them.
And how does Abraham react?
This news sends Abraham into a rage.
“Far be it from you to do such a thing, to wipe away the innocent together with the wicked!”
השופט כל הארץ לא יעשה משפט!!
“Won’t the judge of all the earth deal justly?!”

And Abraham issues a demand that if there are even 50 righteous people in the city, that God should relent.
And God does relent.
And then, of course, Abraham enters bargaining mode.  “But God, what if there aren’t 50 righteous people, but only 45?  What about 40?  30? 20?
And Abraham extracts a promise from God that if there are even TEN righteous people in the city,
then God will not destroy the city.
[This is how you can tell that Abraham is the founder of the Jewish people.
He’s the first one in the Torah to demonstrate this degree of chutzpah.]

But why did Abraham care so much about the people of Sodom and Gemorrah?!
The answer is: because they were his neighbors.
Abraham is simply a person who is animated by the mission ושמרו דרך ה’ לעשות צדקה ומשפט -
"to follow the ways of God, to act with righteousness and justice."
And in contrast to Noah, who is thinking about himself,
Abraham makes his decisions based on the fate of his neighbors.

And those are the two kinds of voters.

Some voters are like Noah, making their decisions based exclusively or primarily on their own needs and their own self-interest.
If I’m a Noah voter, I care primarily about me- and those in the same boat as me.

And some voters are like Abraham.  Of course, they need not be oblivious to their own self-interest.  But they have a broader vision, not only thinking of themselves. They truly take seriously their mandate
that the decisions they make about government are holy decisions -
that they are the way that we enact justice in the world -
and so they think not only of themselves, but also of their neighbors – taking a special interest in those who are most vulnerable.

Now I categoricially promise you that this distinction between Noah voters and Abraham voters
is not an endorsement in disguise.
The Democratic Party in the United States has plenty of Abraham voters and plenty of Noah voters.
And the Republican Party in the United States has plenty of Abraham voters and plenty of Noah voters.
And judging from the political advertising, it appears that both political parties are spending much more time and energy going after the Noah voter demographic.

So how can you tell which kind of voter you are?
Someone who votes based primarily on whatever party will be most likely to reduce their own taxes - is a Noah voter.
Someone who votes based primarily on his or her individual answer to the question “Am I better off or worse off than I was four years ago?”  is a Noah voter.
And someone who says, when I vote, I need to bear in mind what policies I think will pave the way for greater success, and greater justice -
not just for me, but for my society;
not just for my country, but for my world;
and not just for my current generation, but also for future generations, even after I am gone - -
that’s an Abraham voter. 

There’s something else we can notice about the contrast between Noah and Abraham.
When God gives them each the news about the fate of their neighbors:
Noah doesn’t speak up.  And Abraham, boy does he speak up.
Abraham is the paradigm of combative engagement with leadership.
And this reminds of another quality of Abraham voters -the model to which I believe that Jewish tradition encourages us to aspire.
And that is:  that political discourse should be vigorous!  It should be passionate, heartfelt!
Ever since the Talmud, which has been described as less a collection of sacred conclusions
and more - a collection of sacred arguments – 
Jewish tradition has never encouraged people to shrink away from disputes.
When we say ‘two Jews, three opinions,’ we’re not kidding.
After all, leaders so often deal with life-and-death issues. Why SHOULDN’T we be passionate!?

But political discourse should also be scrupulously truthful, and scrupulously respectful.
It should remind us that it’s all about a holy process,
that voting, and governing, is a holy act.

No matter what side of the political debate you are on, on one thing we can agree:
this is not a banner year for truth in politics. or for respect in politics.
From demonization and ridicule of opponents -- to shading the truth --
to taking words, innocently stated, out of their context --
We have come to tolerate a level of political discourse that we would NEVER tolerate
in "real life."
if we used techniques like this to talk to our friends, we wouldn’t have any friends left.
The character of our leaders matters -
and I have in the past hesitated to vote for candidates with whom I agreed on the issues
if I felt that they were conducting a campaign  that gave me concerns about their character.

We notice something interesting about Abraham:  In his opening salvo in his debate with God, Abraham nearly loses his cool, saying
חלילה לך - Far be it from you! 
But then, in Abraham’s SECOND approach to God -
he begins
הנה נא הואלתי לדבר אל אדני ואנכי עפר ואפר
Here now, I have taken it upon myself to speak to God, when I am but dust and ashes.
He continues the bargaining with no less passion,
but he has walked back his shrill tone,
he is acknowledging his own fallibility, as he approaches God with humility. 
And in our current political climate, that humility would be useful.

More than 40 years ago, the illustrious Jewish theologian Martin Buber described the political tenor of his times:
The human world is today, as never before, split into two camps, each of which understands the other as the embodiment of falsehood and itself as the embodiment of truth. . . . Each side has assumed monopoly of the sunlight and has plunged its antagonist into night, and each side demands that you decide between day and night. . . . ” [Martin Buber, “Hope for this Hour”]

And sometimes we are drawn into picturing this country in such Manichean terms.
But the overwhelming majority of issues at stake in the current election, 
Or any American election,
Are issues on which reasonable people can disagree.
What should health care look like in a society like ours?
What tax rates are appropriate for people and corporations at various points on the income scale?
What’s the best way to safeguard against threats to our security?
What should be the tenor of the relationship between the United States and Israel?
What’s the best way to ensure that Iran doesn’t acquire nuclear weapons?
On these and other issues, analysts have noted that people on either side of the political divide are often not interested in listening to each other – 
That “questions from one side to the other are prosecutorial,
rather than genuine requests for understanding; 
Complex issues are defined in dichotomous, 'win-lose' ways,
with nuances and intermediate positions suppressed.
There is little genuine listening to perspectives from the 'other side.' "
(Herzig and Chasin, "Fostering Dialogue Across Divides")

We may have our own strongly held answers to these questions, and we may disagree passionately with others’ perspectives, 
But when we are honest with ourselves, we must concede that on each of these issues, there’s a range of positions on which reasonable people disagree. 
For centuries, Judaism has pioneered a style of dialogue between people who disagree that encourages the retention of respect, even when there is no common ground.
We strive to remember that each person is created in the image of God,
Even people with whom we passionately disagree.

One of the outstanding American Orthodox rabbis of the 20th century, Rabbi Joseph Soloveitchik, expressed this value, saying:  "I may attack a certain point of view which I consider false, but I will never attack a person who preaches it. I have always a high regard for the individual who is honest and moral, even when I am not in agreement with him. Such a relation is in accord with the concept of kavod habriyot,[the honor due to every individual].”
This kind of communication is what Pirkei Avot, the Ethics of the Fathers, describes as a מחלוקת לשם שמים – an argument for the sake of heaven.
And THAT is the paradigm for a Jewish disagreement on any topic.

There are some religious traditions that insist that holiness in this world is inachievable – 
That the only way to live a holy life is to flee from the necessarily mundane, dirty parts of our world.
But Judaism has always insisted that this is a cop-out – 
That it’s our job to BRING holiness to the earth, no matter how challenging a task that may appear.
We can bring holiness to the earth – every time we bring a higher level of consciousness to our act of voting.
Or every time we alleviate the suffering of others.
Or every time we bridge a disagreement, or turn an enemy into a friend.
Or, ideally, every time we engage in the political process.
This is how Hasidic master Rabbi Hanoch of Alexander used to understand the famous verse from the Psalms:
השמים שמים לה'
The heavens are Gods’ heavens, 
are already godly in character.
והארץ נתן לבני אדם.
but God has given the earth to human beings.
God gave it to us so that we could make something godly out of it.
Only when we work together do we have a chance to succeed.
As we read repeatedly in the Mahzor over these holidays,
      ויעשו כולם אגודה אחת לעשות רצונך בלבב שלם


May all of us, of all backgrounds and perspectives

. be bound together, carrying out your will whole-heartedly.”